“If I don’t see you no more in this world, I’ll see you in the next…”

“If I don’t see you no more in this world, I’ll see you in the next one. Don’t be late.”

Jimi Hendrix, Voodoo Child (Slight Return) from Electric Ladyland, the Jimi Hendrix Experience

The sheer outpouring of love and affection for the man whose funeral I conducted last week was a wonderful thing to witness. Emails from his family and friends all around the world flew into my inbox celebrating his life and recalling poignant and funny memories.

It was my great honour to spend time with this brilliant, kind-hearted, and quick-witted man in the weeks prior to his death.  He taught me so much in those few meetings … about gratitude and peaceful acceptance, about remaining strong and open-minded in the face of the unknown, about lifting the mood of those around you despite all you are experiencing, and about understanding that what really matters is the legacy of love we leave behind.

A huge music aficionado and lifelong fan of Jimi Hendrix, he was especially meticulous in the musical planning for his ceremony. He was a believer, of sorts, taking comfort in the view that the spirit or soul continues into the afterlife and finding peace in the great cycle of nature and the Buddhist philosophy of reincarnation.

The pews in the Main Chapel at Mortonhall Crematorium were filled with his family and friends, rainbow light streamed in through the stained glass windows, and the ceremony itself was an emotional, heartfelt and melody-filled tribute to a man who clearly filled the hearts of many who knew him.  My love goes out to his family and friends.

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Thanks to Georg_Wietschorke for the use of his sweet photo.

“Take your hearts with you wherever you go…”

“Take your hearts with you wherever you go,” said their teacher. “Nurture them as a mother nurtures her newborn baby. For when you want to give of yourself fully, your heart is the only true gift you will have.”

Extract from Love Monkey by Edward Monkton

Connie and Rich’s Wedding Ceremony on Saturday at the magnificent countryside hotel at Gleneagles was gorgeous. On a beautiful, blustery, rainbow-blessed day, in a ceremony filled with laughter, tears, love and tenderness, they exchanged vows and rings, sealed promises with a handfasting – with the help of their little boy – and celebrated their togetherness with the Sharing of the Quaich, to a blessing wonderfully read by their young daughter.

Heartfelt congratulations to you both, Connie and Rich. Wishing you and your beautiful family many more fabulous adventures to come.

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It was also super to meet photo-wizard Anna Moffat Photography whizzing about the ceremony capturing the beautiful moments.

 

 

Like a loving cup, or a quaich, I roll you the sun…

“On the other side of the world,

you pass the moon to me

like a loving cup,

or a quaich, 

I roll you the sun….”

Extract from Carol Ann Duffy’s beautiful poem, World.

Today marked my first ever Elopement Ceremony. It was a great honour to be part of Rose and Adam’s intimate and beautiful ceremony at the sumptuous Prestonfield House in Edinburgh.

Rose and Adam’s world-encompassing partnership has already taken them on many wonderful adventures together and their wedding was no exception. Originally from America, they travelled to Edinburgh from Thailand to enjoy a private and deeply meaningful ceremony on a crisp December day blessed by glorious sunshine. After which they are heading to Skye to explore some of the most beautiful wild places in the world. A perfect beginning to married life…

It was my great pleasure to be part of your ceremony, Rose and Adam – thank you for inviting me to be your Wedding Celebrant. In the words of the Celtic blessing chosen for today, ‘May you know nothing but happiness from this day forward.’

It was also wonderful to meet super-talented wedding photographer couple, Sean Bell and Justyna Maria, and watch them perform their magic.

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May this circle of love grow and expand…

Saturday’s Naming Ceremony in the gorgeous and historic Drawing Room at Kelburn Castle was a joyful day of love, friendship, songs and laughter.

Welcome to the world to Leo Lyle Pretsell Boyle. It was a great pleasure and honour to be your Naming Ceremony Celebrant and so lovely to spend time with your wonderful family and friends. You are a lucky boy to have so many fabulous people looking out for you.

In the words of the beautiful Irish proverb chosen by your parents for your Naming Ceremony:

‘We hope your life will be long and interesting; may you always have a penny in your pocket and a friend close by.’

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Laugh as we always laughed…

“Call me by the old familiar name.

Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.

Put no difference into your tone.

Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.”

~ Henry Scott Holland

Death is always hard for those left behind. Bringing together friends and family to celebrate the life of a loved one who has passed away is an enormous privilege. It is an even greater honour to conduct the funeral of someone you knew and loved.

Recently, I was asked to lead the funeral of a family friend; a wonderful, generous and kind-hearted family man with a mischievous sense of humour.

The ceremony took place on a perfect autumnal day in South Lanarkshire. Henry Scott Holland’s poem, ‘Death is Nothing at All’, was beautifully read by a relative, bringing both light and tears to the gathering. The perfect choice of poem for a man who, in the words of his family, carried laughter with him wherever he went.

We were all lucky to have known him. My love goes out to his close family and friends.

Love is what you do…

“Love isn’t how you feel. It’s what you do.” Madeleine L’Engle.

A perfect quote to capture the gorgeous ceremony celebrating the marriage of two trail-blazingly inspirational people, overlooking Castle Rock in Edinburgh on 29th June 2018. So many congratulations to Mike Walters and Tammy Tibbetts – the Walbetts!

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It’s not every day a couple makes their vows to each other in the presence of an ancient volcano, especially one that has been continually inhabited for over 2,800 years. Wishing you both a thousand blessings in your life together and the same long-standing message of love and commitment as that which was evidenced by this most marvellous of wedding ceremony back-drops.

It was a great privilege to have been part of your day and share in the incredible warmth, energy and positivity of you, your friends and family. Thank you and congratulations!

Onie Tibbitt, Edinburgh & East Lothian Wedding Celebrant

 

So how does it happen, great love?

“So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows. But what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you’re busy enjoying your life and the next you’re wondering how you ever lived without them.”

This wonderful quote perfectly summarises Claire and Stefan’s beautiful Wedding Ceremony last Saturday at the gorgeous Coulston House in East Lothian.

It is so inspiring to spend time with a couple who have been together all of their adult lives and are as in love and deeply committed to each other and their family as Claire and Stefan are… and what a celebration it was!

Glorious sunshine, a beautiful walled garden filled with flowers and blessed by bumblebees, and a completely lovely group of family and friends.

So many congratulations to the happy couple. It’s been a great pleasure getting to know you and your gorgeous family. Wishing you so much love and happiness in the years ahead.

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